Are we letting go or hiding?

Many of us are choosing to engage and become part of massive efforts and events in a rapidly changing world. We know that together, we can make a difference. And we each individually have to understand how we, as individuals, apply our energy to engage and influence.

One of the most critical things we can do is understand what is in our spheres of control or influence, and those that our outside of our control. Those things in our control, within our influence, we can impact with our decisions.

  • Is this something worthy of our time, attention and energy?

  • Can you declare or step away from an activity, relationship or creation that has fully served its purpose in your life?

  • But: Are there items, activities and relationships that we are embedded in or have influence over that feel difficult - perhaps out of control. We may be tempted to try to let those go or hide from them.

Notice if something - an action, a project, a relationship or a conversation - feels too difficult to tackle. It may feel like a situation that is out of control, but does that mean this is out of your control? Can we truly and safely choose to avoid assessing these items more carefully? Somethings we can choose to delegate. Others, we can consciously not engage to maintain our values, boundaries and wellness.

But there is a subset of things that we can set aside for a time, but will require our attention eventually or result in negative outcomes: relationships we wish to hold, our self-care and well-being, our core value driven actions. We can’t hide or bury our head in the sand forever. We will not be able to successfully release something that requires our attention to survive in our values is is preferentially not released if we wish to thrive in our values.

As you prepare for a new moon energetic release: Notice if a difficult thing is showing up as “ready to let go” before you are done with it.

Lastly is the bigger, broader area where we have no control or influence. This area is full of stuff that can still be cause for concern and feel like actions, issues or activities that we should subject to our influence and decisions. Letting these items rest or just happen on their own can feel like abdicating our responsibilities. We can spend a lot of time and energy in these spaces to the detriment of areas where we do have control and influence. Things from the past, how others choose to behave or what they choose to say, today’s traffic or weather; all of these are outside of our control and influence. We can choose if and how to react or engage, if that is how we wish to spend our energy.

As you prepare for a new moon energetic release: are there issues, people and ideas that taking your energy and focus, and cannot experience any greater good from your influence or control? If something you strongly value - perhaps the environment or climate - is outside of our control, consider how your might engage within your control and influence?

If you are interested in a little more, energetically, I’ll share group distance Reiki on the evening of October 21, as always, for your highest good and with new moon “final release to open space to create” intentions. Simply be open to receive!

learn more about participating in the moon group distance Reiki

Time for technology

I’m wrapping up two audio projects at the end of month and am excited to finally be trialing an update or two to my recording set up. I am currently using a reasonable microphone and have patched together a reasonable space. But, as with most things, there is always the opportunity to do better.

It’s time to hear what else is possible.

A new set up will lead into a 2026 to better support historical readings, while exploring the right podcast sites.

Re-engaging, in the right doses (for me)

I’ve mentioned a full summer in my previous newsletters and I’m in the middle of rejoining a more usual world - in person and online. I’m rediscovering my preferred social media platforms, reconsidering why I’ve remained on a few others and getting out into the real world on a regular basis. Time is feeling like an odd thing, but it is good to feel the balance pendulum swing back a little toward extra capacity.

Thank you for joining me in the journey over here and beyond ❤️

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